When I'm relaxing I'm most likely terrorizing my soul mate and husband, Ketzer.   I sometimes shoot at little paper targets with pistols, downhill ski, enjoy the theatre, hike, swim, quilt and cross stitch.  I love to travel, and adore bed and breakfasts.  I play World of Warcraft.  For the Horde!  I am an avid reader, with science fiction and fantasy as favorites.  I have become addicted to mysteries, courtesy of the boy. Curious about what I read?  Here's my wish list.  Connecticut Magazine is a must-read magazine for me.  I enjoy ballroom dancing.  My favorites are swing and cha-cha.   I hold the lock to the collar Laura wears about her throat.  Jen was collared on December 29, 2006.

Ainsley Vivian and Anna are my nieces. Yeah, I'm proud. Here are photos of the girls, December 2007.  One, Two.

Wiccan, bi, poly (same primary partner since 1985), living in Connecticut.  Active in the leather community since 1994. I enjoy anything corporal, especially canes and floggers, but they add extra flavor and are not my first choice.  If I have to select, I'll choose my fists (covered with leather or not) and nails.  Favorites include sadism, orgasm control, ritual, humiliation, training, and servitude.  I've become pretty good at bondage. I enjoy hacking hair off and have done it seven times.  I received my cover April 14, 2001, at an intimate gathering with leather family.

Thunder in the Mountains 2009 One, Two, Three, Four, Five 
CAPEX 2008
DFW Power Exchange, 2008
NYbol Boy Auction, 2008
Fetish Flea XXX, IROP IX, 2008
Leather Leadership Conference 2007
Fetish Flea 2004
Iron Rose Ohio Party 2004
Iron Rose Ohio Party 2003, March 2003 One, Two, Three
Iron Rose Ohio Party 2002, March 2002 One, Two
Shadowfind - Marketplace Weekend, May 4-6, 2001
Leather Seder April 14, 2001.

• My Household Photo in 2007 and 2008. Ketzer is the only one who is unchanged.

• The Boy:  Red cuffs, July 2006.  The boy's collar is custom made by Snake Pit Leather Works and is here (photo Jan '05).  Light and Shadow, Nov '04. Tiffany Bracelet, Feb '05.  Us at CAPEX Feb '06, and again.  Here's my first effort with the cauterizing pen a week after.  Here's my second effort two weeks after, with the faint remnants of the first to the left, at 10 weeks.  She earned her boots. I claimed one of her brands.  Sept '06 I touched up the brand again. Nov '06 she earned her vest.

• Jen earned her boots on April 22, 2007 and her vest June 10, 2008. One, Two.

• Ainsley Vivian, my niece.   Us Together 01, Us Together 02.  Princess.  Fairy.

• Jen!  New Year's.  Cutting and ring.  Haircut, hair donated to donated to Locks of Love   After the hair was shaped by a professional.  Collar Dec '06, close-up. Earned boots April '07.
• Ketzer in his leather pants.
• I've had my very short. I've had big hair, I've had long hair.  I've had Elvira hair, I've had more hair than my sister.  I've even been a blonde. One of the favorite photos of me ever was taken by Ketzer in 1996. Yule 2003. 
• Photos of my Lotus corset.  A photo of me in pink at BR2000, which was a joke and you'll never see me in pink EVER again! A photo of me at IROP2003.
• On April 14, 2001, during an intimate gathering of dear friends and respected peers, I received my cover.

• Blue Ginger
• Foamy!
• Laura's Site
• Looking for Group Comic (guess who I identify with!)
• I love anything Olivia.

• I have a thing for Peeps.  Don't send me any. A little goes a long way. You want to send something send me freaking Godiva!

• Riedel

• The Sims 2
• Crayola Crayons (I have a fetish. seriously)
• Favorite Books - buy me one!
• Wolf Haven
• World of Warcraft - For the Horde!

• Entertainment as Service (March 2006)
• On slaves versus submissives here.  
• I wrote on humiliation.  
• The realities of being an Owner.
• This was originally a dissertation on Gorean voice training.  But I've modified it (more like GUTTED it); to try to apply it across the board.  Not my favorite, since it's an attempt to incorporate thoughts for cyber as well as real life.  Tried to revisit it, but just don't care enough to tweak it to the level I'd like.
• Although I am not Gorean myself, I researched Gorean philosophy since Iron Rose owned a Gorean talker.  Here is my web page on things I found.  I got all the information here directly from John Norman's books, and have not trusted any web sources for this information.